Confirmation

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do we receive Confirmation?
Confirmation strengthens us to continue growing in knowledge and friendship with Jesus and to LIVE out our faith with the gifts of the Holy Spirit.  Check out the story of when the disciples first received the power of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost in Acts chapter 2.
 
Confirmation is the Perfection of Baptism:
The Catholic Church considers Confirmation the second of the three Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism being the first and Communion the third). Confirmation is regarded as the perfection of Baptism, because, as the introduction to the Rite of Confirmation states:
“by the sacrament of Confirmation, [the baptized] are more perfectly bound to the Church and are enriched with a special strength of the Holy Spirit. Hence they are, as
true witnesses of Christ, more strictly obliged to spread and defend the faith by word and deed.”

 
What Happens During the Sacrament of Confirmation:
As you approach the Bishop, your sponsor will be standing behind you.  He will lay his hands over your head, which signifies the descent of the Holy Spirit. Next--the essential element--he will anoint you with chrism (an aromatic oil that has been consecrated by a bishop), accompanied by the words "Be sealed with the Gift of the Holy Spirit." This seal is a consecration, representing the safeguarding by the Holy Spirit of the graces conferred on the Christian at Baptism.  The ceremony lasts about 2 hours.  It includes the liturgy of the Word (just like at Mass), then the rite of Confirmation (where each person stands in front of the Bishop), and concludes with the liturgy of the Eucharist (just like at Mass).
 
What do I need to be eligible for Confirmation:
All those who have been baptized are eligible to be confirmed, and, while the Church suggests receiving the sacrament after reaching the "age of reason" (around seven years old), it can be received at any time.  You must be in a state of grace; that means you should participate in the Sacrament of Confession before Confirmation.
 
The Effects of the Sacrament of Confirmation:
The Sacrament of Confirmation confers special graces of the Holy Spirit upon the person being confirmed, just as such graces were granted to the Apostles on Pentecost. Like Baptism, therefore, it can only be performed once, and Confirmation increases and deepens all of the graces granted at Baptism.  The Sacrament can not be “undone.”
The Catechism of the Catholic Church lists five effects of Confirmation:
* it roots us more deeply in a personal connection and relationship with God;
* it unites us more firmly to Christ;
* it increases the gifts of the Holy Spirit in us; knowledge, understanding, wisdom, right judgement, counsel, piety, and wonder & awe.
* it strengthens our bond with the Church;
* it gives us a special strength of the Holy Spirit to spread and defend the faith by word and action as true witnesses of Christ, to confess the name of Christ boldly, and never to be ashamed of the Cross.
 
Because Confirmation perfects our baptism, we are obliged to receive it "in due time." Any teen who does not feel ready to receive this Sacrament during JHYM is invited to continue preparing for it in high school.   Contact Matthew Krumdrick if you would like to talk about this option 630-730-1368.

How do I “get” the graces of Confirmation:
The Holy Spirit will fill you with gifts and graces to the degree that you open your heart to Him.  He can only be as generous as you are willing to receive.  The more you pray and open your heart and offer your life to God, the more you will feel the gift of His presence and presents!

What do I need for Confirmation?

An Open Heart & Desire to Follow Jesus (become a disciple!)

Embark on this faith formation journey because YOU want it--not because someone else wants it for you.  Figure out what your faith means to you.  Prayerfully decide if you want to commit your life to following Jesus.  Discuss with your parents, mentor, and sponsor what the commitment of discipleship means for you.  

A Saint Name

Pick a Saint that inspires you to spiritually accompany you your whole life.
Choose a name from a canonized Saint that embodies the kind of person you’d like to become.  Pick a Saint that shares some of the things you are interested in and passionate about.  This Saint will pray for you all throughout your life!  You’ll also need to write a one page report explaining why you chose this Saint (due in February).  These are helpful websites for researching Saints:
       http://lifeteen.com/blog/biggest-best-list-confirmation-saints-guys-girls/       http://www.americancatholic.org/Features/Saints/patrons.asp

A Sponsor

Someone to guide you and pray for you.
Ask someone Catholic in your life that has an active faith life and that you have an easy time talking with (family member or friend).  Find someone who will support you, discuss faith, and pray for you.  However, your sponsor must be someone other than a parent.  (The church wants you to have additional role models in your life besides your parents.)  

A Letter Requesting Permission to be Confirmed

In your one page letter to   Fr. Robert Basler, you will explain why you desire to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation and ask for his permission.  (Due March 6th or 7th)
You'll receive information about this at Confirmation Prep #2 on January 9 or 10, 2022.  Attend that session in person or virtually with your sponsor.

Gifts of the Holy Spirit

Knowledge

To know God's will for your life.
This gift will help me know what God’s will is for my life.  I will begin to see what is of God and what is not.  

Understanding

To appreciate the truths of my faith.
Understanding helps me to begin to  comprehend the deep
 meaning of supernatural truths such as the Mass, Eucharist, and the Sacraments.  Understanding helps me to appreciate, love and live my faith.

Wisdom

To see myself, others, and the world through God's eyes.
Wisdom helps me to understand things from God’s point of
view.  Wisdom gives us power to apply our knowledge of God’s will in our daily situations and struggles.

Counsel or Right Judgement

To choose what is right and just.
When asked, the Holy Spirit will direct, guide, and counsel
us on the right thing to do in every circumstance.  

Courage or Fortitude

To do what is right even when it's hard.
This gift brings the tremendous strength and bravery from
the Holy Spirit Himself so that I will be able to do what God is asking me to do.  

Piety or Reverence

To strive for holiness or closeness with God.
This gift will make my relationship with God become stronger  
and help me grow in holiness.  As I begin to trust God more, my relationship with Him will grow into a close friendship.

Wonder & Awe of God (or Fear of the Lord)

To respect the awesomeness of God.
This gift is a deep appreciation of God’s might over sin and love of us. We gain dissatisfaction with sin because we love God so much that we never want to do anything to hurt or displease Him.  
What is God’s job for me to do?  What is my purpose in life?
God’s plan for your life is to continue growing in relationship and love of God (that is the greatest commandment) and to use the gifts He gives us (time, talents, and treasure) to meet the needs of others (that is the second commandment).  Look up Matthew 22:36-40 to hear Jesus explain it.  This is God’s general will for each of us.  To learn what your specific purpose is, you’ll need to have daily conversations with God.  The Holy Spirit will guide you to developing your gifts, help you to hear God’s voice, and strengthen you with the gifts every time you ask--that will help you live out God’s will for you.  Especially after Confirmation, keep attending Mass, doing acts of service, and participating in Quest, the High School Youth Ministry.
 
How do you love God?
God loves you SO MUCH that Jesus came to earth, and even though he didn’t deserve to die, He suffered a great deal to pay the price for our sins.  He offered Himself up as a sacrifice so we could be in a close, personal relationship with God.  We can show God our gratitude and love by believing in Jesus and offering our lives as a gift to Him.  That means every morning, pray something like this: “Jesus, thank you for your gift of salvation.  I offer you my day today.  Help me to do my best as a gift to you.  Guide me and strengthen me to love others like you would.”  God desires that we love Him first on the inside (with our thoughts and attitudes), and second on the outside (with our relationships, choices, and actions).  You can grow in love for God by praying every day, reading Scripture, attending Mass and the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and serving others whenever you can.